Why does my mom twist my words?

i was talking to my mom and i was talking to her bout my sister and how she is almost 9 and my mom is teaching her how to give herself baths and i said "Oh well i remember when i started giving myself baths and i had to put on of those hair clips in and it was hard." Then my mom said, "Yeah, well i said i would show you but you said you didn't want me to you wanted to do it yourself." But when i remember clearly that i didn't want to do it buy my mom made me. Than another time i was 8 and my mom told me that i had to start learning how to tie my shoes cause a lot of the shoes had shoelaces (which it's not like that anymore with my sis) and my mom said "No, you wanted to learn." which that i remember clearly i didn't but my mom made me learn.



So why is it that she treats my sis more like a baby and when i tell her she didn't do it that much with me she'll get mad and twist my words aroundWhy does my mom twist my words?
My mom takes in what I say, and if I mention it in front of my dad and he didn't know, my mom pretends like she does not know. It's a stupid parent thingWhy does my mom twist my words?
Its a mom thing they feel superior when they do it i dont know why but they doWhy does my mom twist my words?
That isn't too bad. Just don't argue with her. Moms like to feel important, she spends a lot of time and money taking care of you. She nags you to remind you she's still there because she really loves you :).



I think maybe later you'll appreciate her making you learn all those mundane tasks when you get older. I know when I was smaller I hated my mom forcing me to do stuff.



At least she doesn't hit you :)!