Does your spouse ever twist your words?

Says to you that you said things that you never did or didn't even think of? How do you deal with that? And why would anyone do that the first place?Does your spouse ever twist your words?
My ex-wife did. She re-wrote history constantly. She had borderline personality disorder, and it's one of the symptoms. Explaining the psychology of why would be kind of a long post, but I'd e-mail it if you really cared and thought your spouse was personality-disordered.



I dealt with it by arguinig at first, then by feeling like I'd gone through the looking glass, and, eventually, by divorcing. Now I'm married to someone who remembers what I say and do accurately.
Yes he does, I'll tell him "babe no that's not what I meant look ........... do you understand?" I usually put a few examples and then I'll ask him did you understand the reason of this conversation. They do that because remember he/she has a different mind than you, we all see things differently, and is okay.Does your spouse ever twist your words?
He's manipulative and passive-aggressive--and chances are he's concealing things from you as well. Unfortunately, cheating seems to go with that behavior, too. Bottom line, you can't fix broken. Your move on whether to stay or go.
If it's any comfort, more or less ALL spouses do this ( or at least the other spouse thinks so!)Does your spouse ever twist your words?
I'd be happy if she'd stop twisting her own words.

I can straighten my own out.
My ex did exactly the same n we can all see the trend here...yes they re all exs itll end sooner or later so be the one to ditch him
no, but I twist hers.
Yes, she did - so I stopped talking to her.