My friend thinks im sad alot and i twist his words around he says he loves me and thinks of me everyday?

does this mean i have pushed him away completely? i dont mean to twist words around it just how i interpret what he saidMy friend thinks im sad alot and i twist his words around he says he loves me and thinks of me everyday?
If he thinks of your everyday then I don't think you have anything to worry about. As for your twisting his words, it seems like something you'll just need to really work on. If you value his friendship, and you guys have an honest and open friendship, then ask him to tell you when you're doing it. Maybe you guys can dig deep and find out why you're doing it.



One final thing. You need to really ask yourself if you ARE pushing him away. And if so, why. Are you afraid of being hurt, insecure about yourself, or do you think he's lying to you about the way he feels? To really find understanding you'll need to do some soul searching. Get clear about what YOU want and how you feel, before you bring him into the mix.
2 ears 1 mouth

listen twice as much

you are not listening to me u asked the same question twice?

you need 2 mouths and 1 ear?My friend thinks im sad alot and i twist his words around he says he loves me and thinks of me everyday?
some things only time and distance can tell...
lighten up.

dont take yourself so seriously. enjoy, dont argue.

look to the fun side of a reltionship, friend or mate.My friend thinks im sad alot and i twist his words around he says he loves me and thinks of me everyday?
That is the problem......

Why is everything twisted %26amp; interpreted differently, from the way it was delivered to you. No wonder everything is all screwed up. Get real, stop being a read between the lines or reading crap that isn't even there friend.

If your sad......say so. If he loves you, tell him to say so. NO BS. Otherwise we are all doomed for communication breakdown.
I used to do this all the time also. And the words that I spoke were often misconstrued to take on a completely different meaning than I had intended. I finally had to 'step out side myself, and take a look at the situation from some body elses views. And I discovered that I was not really hearing what was being said. Because of my own insecurities, jealousy's frightened thoughts, I dont really know. I guess that I just couldnt bring myself to believe the truth so I would make up reasons in my head why that person was BSing me or whatever the case. It was a very very hard habit or characteristic for me to over come, but I finally decided that I didnt want to always be sad or angry so I had to see, and admit that maybe there was some truth to those observations being made of me.
It is normal with women. It always happens when we are nervous. its like heritage.