everytime I am talking to my fiance she will repeat what I said to someone else but twist it to be the opposite and I am always correcting her. She started accusing me of cheating after about 6 months of dating. i work from home and we are together 24/7 otherwise. Also her mom lives with us. She had her mom reporting to her where I was going when I left. I have never cheated on a girl in my life nor would I and now this it to the point where she believes her lies in her head. HELPPPPPP!!! MMEEEEWhy does my girlfriend twist words that I say, accuse me of cheating, lying, fabricates stuff in her mind.?
....you're living with her mom, who reports all your comings and goings. The GF is delusional and paranoid.... tell me again why you're still there?
Females like tp exagerate and make storys more complicated. Most also like to create arguments as they enjoy them. the secret is to not argue back but to just agree but change the story to how you want it.Why does my girlfriend twist words that I say, accuse me of cheating, lying, fabricates stuff in her mind.?
First off, you should post this in single/dating, not married. Second, with all the issues prior to the marriage, why in the world you would marry a crazy, possessive,insecure woman?
I am afraid I have very bad news for you; if and after you get married it only gets worse. One of the reasons why after 42 years of marriage I don't buy a hearing aid.Why does my girlfriend twist words that I say, accuse me of cheating, lying, fabricates stuff in her mind.?
Have you ever noticed that when people accuse you of something erroneous that they end up being guilty of the transgression in point?
I'd run like I had a mob chasing me!!
Women are like hurricanes, you'll never know what they'll do next.It's your choice if you want to end it or not.
She is not a keeper, too much insecurity. You cannot make sense out of nonsense.
Run. Do not walk. RUN! Do you want a lifetime of that? She's not going to change.
Because she's a psycho.
I hope that clarifies things for you.
Because she is afraid.
girls are crazy
It sounds like your lady has severe trust issues, on top of being incredibly insecure. You mentioned that she is your fiance, and I feel obligated to warn you that these occurrences aren't going to get better once you get married. They're going to get much, much worse. Trust me on this. Save yourself the heartbreak and legal expenditures later on, and end it as soon as possible. Your girlfriend is not going to wake up one morning and suddenly be over these issues, and there's nothing you can do to make it better. This isn't about you, it's about her, and it's only going to get worse.
That's a pretty typical female condition that seems to have developed to an ugly extreme in your case. A vast many women inherently warp the words of their spouses from what the spouse said to what the woman chose to hear. Sometimes the woman is accurately getting to the root of what their spouse was saying, more often they're over-thinking things and attaching feelings and concepts to what you said that are fabricated from her own feelings on the matter.
That your girlfriend has almost all-day access to you and still accuses you of cheating suggests any trust in your relationship will be a long time coming, or is simply never going to come. To be living with her mother and have her essentially spying on you must also be rather disheartening.
I suggest you sit down and have a chat with your girl about trust. Let her know you love her (that is to say if you do... if you don't,my advice would be 'RUN!') but that you're having a lot of difficulty dealing with all the suspicion and contention in your relationship/home. Let her know that you need her trust and support to be happy as a man, and that the two of you need to work on that together or your relationship isn't going to work out.
Good luck capitan.
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